communication with God

First of All, Pray

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1 First of all, then, I urge that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for all people, 2 for kings and all who are in high positions, that we may lead a peaceful and quiet life, godly and dignified in every way. 3 This is good, and it is pleasing in the sight of God our Savior, 4 who desires all people to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth. 5 For there is one God, and there is one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, 6 who gave himself as a ransom for all, which is the testimony given at the proper time. 7 For this I was appointed a preacher and an apostle (I am telling the truth, I am not lying), a teacher of the Gentiles in faith and truth. – 1 Timothy 2:1-7 ESV

This chapter is filled with familiar verses around which some have built entire doctrines regarding the church. In many cases, they have ignored the context while focusing on a single concept or idea. But we have to remember that Paul was giving his young disciple, Timothy, instructions regarding his ministry among the people in Ephesus. The focus of this entire chapter appears to be the gospel and the environment in which it thrives and spreads most effectively.

Certain activities and circumstances can hinder the gospel’s impact and make the good news of Jesus Christ difficult to understand. Well-meaning Christians can also conduct themselves in ways that discredit their role as messengers of the gospel. Paul’s primary emphasis in this chapter is the salvation of others, and that is what he is trying to communicate to Timothy. Everything else he deals with becomes the context in which the spread of the gospel flourishes.

He begins with an admonition to pray. Prayer is not a magic formula or secret weapon believers use to get what they want from God; it is intimate communication with their Heavenly Father. The ability to speak directly with God is a privilege every one of His children enjoys.  As the church, we are the people of God and, as such, we should always have a Godward focus in our thinking. Paul tells Timothy to pray for all people and even suggests what to pray.

Ask God to help them; intercede on their behalf, and give thanks for them. – 1 Timothy 2:1 NLT

Paul actually lists four different aspects of prayer: supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings. Paul chose each word carefully because, in the Greek language in which he penned this letter, each word has a specific meaning that helps illustrate the rich depth that should mark our communication with God.

“Supplications” is the Greek word deeseis, and it carries the idea of determination and earnestness based on a conviction of the need. As believers, we understand that every human being has one primary and pressing need: to know Jesus. When we pray to God on behalf of others, our primary concern should be their salvation. Whatever their perceived or expressed need may be, only a saving relationship with Jesus Christ will truly transform their life. Those who receive healing from sickness but remain unsaved are still under the condemnation of death and face eternal separation from God. To pray for someone’s financial well-being without having a concern for their spiritual health would be short-sighted and, ultimately, unhelpful.

The word “prayers” is the Greek word proseuchas, a more general term that covers all communication with our Heavenly Father. Its focus is on Him, not the one for whom we are praying. We are to lift up all men to God, placing them in His hands and under His care, trusting that He knows what they need. The content of our prayer is less important than the identity of the one to whom we pray. Our requests are based on His character, focused on His faithfulness, and fully dependent upon His power.

“Intercession” (enteuxeis) seems to cover the specific requests we make on behalf of others. When we become aware of a need or circumstance in another person’s life, we are to take it to the Lord. Interceding on their behalf requires that we converse with God about the matter, sharing our concern for their needs. This is a selfless act of love and compassion done for the benefit of someone other than ourselves. Jesus modeled intercession when He prayed in the garden on the night of His betrayal.

“My prayer is not for the world, but for those you have given me, because they belong to you…protect them by the power of your name so that they will be united just as we are.… I’m not asking you to take them out of the world, but to keep them safe from the evil one.… Make them holy by your truth; teach them your word, which is truth.… I pray that they will all be one, just as you and I are one—as you are in me, Father, and I am in you. And may they be in us so that the world will believe you sent me.” – John 17:9, 11, 15, 17,  21 NLT

Finally, “thanksgiving” (eucharistias) conveys the idea that our prayers are to be characterized by gratefulness. But in this context, Paul suggests that we thank God for the ones we are praying for, including all men, not just some. Again, Paul’s focus is on God. To thank God for someone we would normally be unthankful for is to express trust in His sovereignty; it reveals that we know He is in charge and has a purpose for that person’s presence in our life. With this call to unbiased thankfulness, Paul reflects Jesus’ words.

“Pray for those who persecute you! In that way, you will be acting as true children of your Father in heaven. For he gives his sunlight to both the evil and the good, and he sends rain on the just and the unjust alike.” – Matthew 5:44-45 NLT

Prayer is not meant to be formulaic or ritualistic. It is to be marked by a variety and intensity of style and content, with the focus always on God.

Paul goes on to instruct Timothy that the prayers of God’s people are to include kings and all those in authority. These people are sometimes the most difficult to pray for. But Paul emphasizes God using these people to help create an atmosphere in which believers might “live peaceful and quiet lives marked by godliness and dignity” and the Gospel might prosper and spread. Why? Because God wants all people to be saved and to come to a knowledge of the truth. His desire is that all men hear that “there is only one God and one Mediator who can reconcile God and humanity—the man Christ Jesus. He gave his life to purchase freedom for everyone” (1 Timothy 2:5-6 NLT). So pray!

But Paul wants Timothy to know that certain things can hinder our prayers and destroy our witness as believers. He mentions anger and controversy. Jesus Himself warned us that “if you are presenting a sacrifice at the altar in the Temple and you suddenly remember that someone has something against you, leave your sacrifice there at the altar. Go and be reconciled to that person. Then come and offer your sacrifice to God” (Matthew 5:23-24 NLT). Reconciliation and restoration of the relationship is far more important to God than adherence to a set of religious rituals.

Disunity can derail our prayer lives, but so can our actions. Our behavior among those for whom we are praying can powerfully affect whether they eventually experience the salvation they desperately need. So, Paul encouraged Timothy to make prayer a high priority in his life and ministry and, in doing so, he echoed the words of James.

Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and produces wonderful results.
– James 5:16 NLT

Father, thank You for the gracious gift of prayer. Through Jesus, You opened a line of communication that not only allows us to talk to You, but to hear from You. Yet, for too much of my life, I have tended to neglect this lifeline to Your throne room. For the most part, my prayer life ebbs and flows based on my circumstances. When things are going well, the frequency and fervency of my prayers diminish. But when things take a turn for the worse, I became a praying machine, casting all my cares on You because I have run out of options and desperately need Your help. But what Paul told Timothy about prayer is what I needed to hear. My prayer life not only needs to become more active, but also more diverse and other-oriented. I can easily turn prayer into a one-sided monologue where I communicate my needs to You and then wait for Your response. But Paul suggests a more well-rounded, selfless form of prayer that focuses on who You and all those for whom Your Son sacrificed His life. Open my eyes to see the true purpose and power of prayer. I don’t want to pray because I need to, but because I want to. I have been given me the privilege of communicating with You and I don’t want to take it for granted. Amen. 

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Food and Forgiveness.

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Give us this day our daily bread, and forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. – Matthew 6:11-12 ESV

Matthew 6:9-13

Prayer, at its most basic form, is communication with God. It is the child of God speaking with and listening to his Father. There should be a certain degree of intimacy and expectancy in our conversations with God. As Jesus shows us in the model prayer He shared with His disciples, our prayers should begin with an acknowledgement of God’s holiness and transcendency, but also a realization of our personal relationship with Him as His children. Because He is our Father, we can come to Him boldly, knowing that He loves us. But we must also come respectfully and submissively, never forgetting that He is God and always ready to subject our will to His. It is this recognition of God as both our creator and Father that prompts us to willingly submit to His rule and reign over our lives. And while we are perfectly free and repeatedly encouraged to bring our requests before Him, we must always do so with a readiness to accept what He deems best. In Jesus’ prayer, He seems to teach us to ask God for the basics – “give us this day our daily bread.” This isn’t a request for a life of poverty or bare subsistence. It is an expression of dependence upon God for those things that will sustain us in life. Thomas L. Constable, in his commentary on Matthew, writes, “Daily bread refers to the necessities of life, not its luxuries. This is a prayer for our needs, not our greeds. The request is for God to supply our needs day by day” (Dr. Thomas L. Constable, Notes on Matthew, 2008 Edition). When we ask God for our “daily bread,” we our admitting our dependency upon Him. Rather than in prideful self-sufficiency, we admit our reliance upon Him as our creator, sustainer, provider and loving Father. This attitude in prayer expresses a degree of contentment in and satisfaction with what God provides. Paul told Timothy, “Yet true godliness with contentment is itself great wealth. After all, we brought nothing with us when we came into the world, and we can’t take anything with us when we leave it. So if we have enough food and clothing, let us be content” (1 Timothy 6:6-8 NLT). Sometimes our constant requests of God for more reveal that we really seek satisfaction and contentment in things rather than Him.

But there is another necessity that Jesus would have us recognize. Not only do we need God to provide us our daily needs, we need His constant forgiveness. This particular part of Jesus’ prayer has caused some great confusion and consternation. After all, weren’t all our sins forgiven by His death on the cross? If so, why must we constantly ask God to forgive us our sins? It is important that we understand that our sins have been forgiven – in full, past present and future. We stand before God as righteous because of the death of Christ on the cross. But we know from experience that we still sin. We have sin natures and a built-in propensity to sin against God. And sin, as it always has done, creates a barrier between us and God. The forgiveness Jesus is talking about has nothing to do with our salvation. That has been taken care of by Jesus. The forgiveness He is telling us to seek has to do with restoring fellowship with God. The word translated “debts” refers to our sins, not our financial obligations to God. Each and every day of our lives, we sin against God. We rebel against His rule and reign over our lives. We lie, deceive, exhibit pride and prejudice, hurt others, fail to love, act selfishly, lust, covet, and refuse to obey His commands. Our confession of those sins brings forgiveness. In asking for forgiveness, we are recognizing the amazing reality that God WILL do just that – forgive us. “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9 ESV). An admission of our sins and a willing confession of them to God restores our fellowship with Him. And fellowship with our Father should mean more to us than anything else.

But there is more. Jesus adds an interesting twist to His model prayer. He says, “forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors” (Matthew 6:12 ESV). This is not teaching us that our forgiveness from God is somehow tied to our forgiveness of others. It is telling us that forgiveness should be so important to us that we are willing to extend it even to those who sin against us. To refuse to forgive others is to show an open disregard for the forgiveness of God. That is why, after Jesus finishes giving His model prayer, He adds, “For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses” (Matthew 6:14-15 ESV). To refuse to forgive others is sin. It is against the will of God for His children. Dr. Constable adds, “These verses explain the thought of the fifth petition more fully. Repetition stresses the importance of forgiving one another if we want God’s forgiveness. Our horizontal relationships with other people must be correct before our vertical relationship with God can be” (Dr. Thomas L. Constable, Notes on Matthew, 2008 Edition).

Just prior to giving His model prayer, Jesus has taught, “So if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar and go. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift” (Matthew 5:23-24 ESV). There is a point at which our personal relationships can hinder our relationship with our heavenly Father. He has called us to love one another. Our desire for forgiveness from Him and restored fellowship with Him should drive us to maintain our fellowship with one another. “If God so loved us, we also ought to love one another” (1 John 4:11 ESV). Food and forgiveness – two basic needs we all share.and two necessities we should all desire.