¹⁷ And as he was setting out on his journey, a man ran up and knelt before him and asked him, “Good Teacher, what must I do to inherit eternal life?” ¹⁸ And Jesus said to him, “Why do you call me good? No one is good except God alone. ¹⁹ You know the commandments: ‘Do not murder, Do not commit adultery, Do not steal, Do not bear false witness, Do not defraud, Honor your father and mother.’” ²⁰ And he said to him, “Teacher, all these I have kept from my youth.” ²¹ And Jesus, looking at him, loved him, and said to him, “You lack one thing: go, sell all that you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow me.” ²² Disheartened by the saying, he went away sorrowful, for he had great possessions. 

²³ And Jesus looked around and said to his disciples, “How difficult it will be for those who have wealth to enter the kingdom of God!” – Mark 10:17-23 ESV

What happens next perfectly juxtaposes what Jesus has been trying to teach His disciples. He has addressed their pride and the unhealthy competitive spirit that caused them to argue over who among them was spiritually superior. Peter, James, and John likely bragged about their adventure with Jesus on the Mount of Transfiguration, leaving the other disciples envious of the special treatment Jesus gave them. Each of the 12 disciples tried to earn his way into Jesus’ good graces, hoping to secure a prominent position in His coming Kingdom. John revealed their disdain for anyone outside their circle who might encroach on their territory and rob them of glory. When he and his fellow disciples found someone casting out demons in Jesus’ name, they rebuked him, demanding that he stop. But Jesus surprised John by commending the stranger for his actions, saying, “the one who is not against us is for us” (Mark 9:40 ESV).

To convict the disciples of their unhealthy obsession with greatness, Jesus repeatedly used children to illustrate the attitude He sought in His followers. When the disciples tried to send away the parents who brought their children to be blessed by Jesus, He declared, “Let the children come to me. Don’t stop them! For the Kingdom of God belongs to those who are like these children. I tell you the truth, anyone who doesn’t receive the Kingdom of God like a child will never enter it” (Mark 10:14-15 NLT).

The disciples viewed these children as a distraction. From their perspective, children were non-contributors who required too much attention and could offer no help with the work that needed to be done. They had no rights, no money, no skills, and no way of helping Jesus usher in His Kingdom. So, why waste time with them?

At this point, a young man approached Jesus and asked, “Good Teacher, what must I do to inherit eternal life?” (Mark 10:17 ESV). Matthew adds that the man’s request was focused on what “good deed” he must do to inherit eternal life. From the conversation that followed, it seems clear that the man believed he had already done enough. He was young and rich, and from a common Jewish perspective, his wealth signaled that God had already blessed him. He was also religious: when Jesus listed six of the Ten Commandments and told him to keep them, he proudly announced, “All these I have kept from my youth” (Mark 10:20 ESV).

This man sought confirmation, not a list of things to do. As a faithful Jew, he believed he was a child of Abraham and, therefore, a rightful heir to eternal life. As Abraham’s descendant, he was guaranteed a place in God’s eternal Kingdom. Now, he was asking Jesus to place His Good Housekeeping Seal of Approval on his life.

The man’s question was carefully worded. He uses the word klēronomeō, which means “to obtain by inheritance.” This reveals that he believed eternal life was already rightfully his, but he wanted to know how he could receive it now. He did not want to wait. His attitude is similar to that of the young man in Jesus’ parable of the prodigal son. In that story, Jesus described another young man from a wealthy family who was destined to inherit his father’s vast riches. But unwilling to wait for his father to die, he demanded that he be given his inheritance immediately.

“I want my share of your estate now before you die.” So his father agreed to divide his wealth between his sons. – Luke 15:12 NLT

The father graciously complied. But blessed by his father’s generosity and the sudden influx of wealth, the young man wasted his inheritance on a life of excess and immorality. He got what he wanted but misused and abused it.

Similarly, the rich young man who knelt before Jesus demanded what was rightfully his: his guaranteed inheritance of eternal life. This man had it all, but he wanted more. He coveted the one thing missing from his portfolio: Eternal life.

Because of his wealth, social standing, and success in religious rule-keeping, this young man believed God had blessed him. He saw himself as a good man who deserved everything due to him. If Jesus could help him get eternal life, he would have it all. But Jesus emphasized that “No one is good except God alone” (Luke 18:19 ESV). As David wrote in his Psalm, “They have all turned aside; together they have become corrupt; there is none who does good, not even one” (Psalm 14:3 ESV).

While this man could brag about keeping six of the Ten Commandments, Jesus knew the truth about his heart. Notably, Jesus listed only the five commandments that deal with horizontal relationships between individuals.

“Do not murder, Do not commit adultery, Do not steal, Do not bear false witness, Do not defraud, Honor your father and mother.” – Mark 10: 19 ESV

These five commandments remind us of Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount. In that message, Jesus stated, “Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them. For truly, I say to you, until heaven and earth pass away, not an iota, not a dot, will pass from the Law until all is accomplished. Therefore whoever relaxes one of the least of these commandments and teaches others to do the same will be called least in the kingdom of heaven, but whoever does them and teaches them will be called great in the kingdom of heaven” (Matthew 5:17-19 ESV).

Jesus went on to explain what it looked like to “relax” one of God’s laws. He put hatred on the same par as murder (Matthew 5:22). He compared lust to adultery.

“…everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” – Matthew 5:28 ESV

Lust, like adultery, is taking what does not belong to you; it is a form of stealing. And Jesus said, “If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body be thrown into hell” (Matthew 5:29 ESV).

Throughout His Sermon on the Mount, Jesus painted a radically different picture of what it means to keep God’s law. It wasn’t just about rule-keeping; it was about a change of the heart. Those who hoped to inherit God’s kingdom would have to live sacrificially and selflessly. Their adherence to God’s laws had to show up in their relationships with others. That’s why Jesus said, “Give to the one who begs from you, and do not refuse the one who would borrow from you” (Matthew 5:42 ESV).

Which brings us back to the rich young man. Jesus turned to him and said, “You lack one thing: go, sell all that you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow me” (Mark 10:21 ESV). This proved to be the deal-breaker. This one “good deed” was more than the man could handle because he was unwilling to part with his wealth. All his law-keeping had cost him nothing. But now Jesus demanded one thing that would cost him everything.

Think about what this man was giving up. He was turning his back on the assurance of eternal life to keep living the “good life.” Mark sadly reports that the man “went away sorrowful, for he had great possessions” (Mark 10:22 ESV).

He was possessed by his possessions. He was held captive by worldly things. His love of material goods and temporal pleasures proved too great. Years later, the apostle John would likely recall this sad scene when he wrote the following words:

Do not love this world nor the things it offers you, for when you love the world, you do not have the love of the Father in you. For the world offers only a craving for physical pleasure, a craving for everything we see, and pride in our achievements and possessions. These are not from the Father, but are from this world. And this world is fading away, along with everything that people crave. But anyone who does what pleases God will live forever. – 1 John 2:15-17 NLT

This man had been young and full of life. He was wealthy and blessed with every earthly pleasure imaginable. He was a ruler who wielded tremendous power and responsibility. In other words, He was great. He was all that the disciples hoped to become. When they looked at the rich young ruler, they saw the image of what they aspired to be. As the disciples stood in stunned silence watching the young man walk away, Jesus further shattered their misconception of greatness, saying, “How difficult it will be for those who have wealth to enter the kingdom of God!” (Mark 10:23 ESV).

This was not an indictment of wealth or financial security; Jesus was simply warning that temporal treasures and earthly pleasures can become distractions. The love of money can replace our love for God. Financial independence can foster self-reliance rather than a trust in God. And those who believe their wealth is a sign of God’s blessing can easily miss the reality of their spiritual poverty.

Each of these encounters that Jesus had was intentionally designed to redefine the disciples’ view on greatness. From their perspective, this rich young man was the epitome of greatness; he was to be envied and emulated. Yet Jesus told them to model their lives after little children, who had no rights or privileges but displayed innocent faith and trust.

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