The Cost of Commitment

2 Continue steadfastly in prayer, being watchful in it with thanksgiving. 3 At the same time, pray also for us, that God may open to us a door for the word, to declare the mystery of Christ, on account of which I am in prison— 4 that I may make it clear, which is how I ought to speak.

5 Walk in wisdom toward outsiders, making the best use of the time. 6 Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person. – Colossians 4:2-6 ESV

Paul has emphasized the relationship between believers and their need to love one another. He encouraged them to “make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you” (Colossians 3:13 NLT). They were to respond to one another patiently and lovingly as brothers and sisters in Christ, forgiving as they had been forgiven, and seeking to promote an atmosphere of Christlike peace and harmony.

Now, Paul calls on the Colossian believers to make prayer a priority in their lives, and he practiced what he preached. He opened his letter with several statements concerning the ongoing prayers that he and Timothy prayed on their behalf.

We always pray for you, and we give thanks to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. – Colossians 1:3 NLT

…we have not stopped praying for you since we first heard about you. We ask God to give you complete knowledge of his will and to give you spiritual wisdom and understanding. – Colossians 1:9 NLT

We also pray that you will be strengthened with all his glorious power so you will have all the endurance and patience you need. – Colossians 1:11 NLT

Prayer was a vital part of Paul’s ministry and life. With responsibility for the spiritual well-being of so many congregations spread over such a large geographic area, Paul was limited in his ability to make personal appearances. So, he utilized prayer to call on the power of God to protect and provide for his far-flung flocks. Paul understood the power and necessity of prayer, and considered it the most vital resource for living the Christian life.

The author of Hebrews, whom many believe to have been Paul, wrote, “Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need” (Hebrews 4:16 BSB). Paul wrote something similar in his letter to the church in Ephesus.

Because of Christ and our faith in him, we can now come boldly and confidently into God’s presence. – Ephesians 3:12 NLT

Paul was committed to cultivating the interpersonal relationships of the Colossians believers. He wanted them to live out their Spirit-transformed lives by displaying Christlike behavior toward one another. But he also desired that the Colossians maintain a healthy and ongoing dialogue with their heavenly Father. For Paul, prayer was the primary way for a believer to express their dependence upon God. He viewed prayer as far more than a means of getting what we want from God; prayer was a way for the believer to align their will with that of the Father. It was an essential form of two-way communication between the Heavenly Father and His child.

Through prayer, petitions could be shared, and directions could be received. For Paul, prayer was an expression of faith that demonstrated the believer’s dependence upon and trust in God. It was a privilege provided by a gracious God that allowed His children to call upon Him at any time. For Paul, prayer was to be a delight, not a duty. He was familiar with the Proverbs that promoted the efficacy of prayer.

The sacrifice of the wicked is an abomination to the LORD, but the prayer of the upright is acceptable to him. – Proverbs 15:8 ESV

The LORD is far from the wicked, but he hears the prayer of the righteous. – Proverbs 15:29 ESV

He would have known what King David had written concerning God and the prayers of His people.

The Lord is near to all who call on him,
    to all who call on him in truth.
He fulfills the desire of those who fear him;
    he also hears their cry and saves them. – Psalm 145:18-19 NLT

And he would have heartily endorsed the words of James.

Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man has great power to prevail. – James 5:16 BSB

So, as Paul begins to close out his letter to the Colossians, he emphasizes the need for prayer. He urges them to devote themselves to the practice of prayer. And he warns them to be “watchful” (grēgoreō), a word that carries the idea of being alert and ready to see how God will answer their prayers. When God does answer, and He will, they are to express their gratitude for His gracious intercession. Prayer requires faith, but not blind faith. It has God as its object and, therefore, answers to prayer should come as no surprise. Prayer and thanksgiving should go hand in hand because God is a faithful God who longs to fulfill the desires of His people. He not only hears the prayers of His children, but He answers them.

That’s why Paul asked the Colossians to pray for him. He understood the power of prayer and was not ashamed to request their prayers on his behalf. But Paul was specific in terms of his prayer request. He wanted them to pray that God would open up additional opportunities for him and Timothy to share the good news concerning Christ. At first glance, this seems like an unnecessary prayer because the spread of the gospel was God’s will. He didn’t need to be coerced or cajoled into opening up new opportunities for unbelievers to hear the news of salvation by grace alone through faith alone in Christ alone. According to Paul’s letter to Timothy, God “desires all people to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth” (1 Timothy 2:4 ESV). So, why was it important that the Colossians pray this prayer on Paul’s behalf?

It seems that Paul wanted them to pray in keeping with the will of God. It was clearly God’s will that many would be saved, and the Colossians had the opportunity to align themselves with God by praying for His will to be accomplished. In doing so, they would be setting their minds on things above, not on earthly, temporal things (Colossians 3:2). They would be praying in keeping with God’s revealed will.

What makes Paul’s prayer request even more fascinating is that he shared it while under house arrest in Rome. Notice that he did not ask them to pray for his release or request that they pray for his protection or provision. They would have known about his confinement in Rome and his pending trial before Emperor Nero, and it would have been natural for them to desire his acquittal and liberation. And it was not that Paul preferred confinement to freedom. During his imprisonment in Rome, he wrote to the church in Philippi, expressing his belief that he would one day be released.

I know that as you pray for me and the Spirit of Jesus Christ helps me, this will lead to my deliverance. – Philippians 1:19 NLT

But Paul went on to express his conflicted spirit over the prospect of deliverance from imprisonment by either death or acquittal. He sincerely desired to be with the Lord, but could not imagine leaving his work undone.

I trust that my life will bring honor to Christ, whether I live or die. For to me, living means living for Christ, and dying is even better. But if I live, I can do more fruitful work for Christ. So I really don’t know which is better. I’m torn between two desires: I long to go and be with Christ, which would be far better for me. But for your sakes, it is better that I continue to live. – Philippians 1:20-24 NLT

By focusing their attention on the spread of the gospel, Paul was helping them to understand that God’s will trumped his own. If God deemed it necessary for Paul to be released in order for the gospel to be spread, He would make it happen. But Paul’s prayer request was selfless in nature; he wanted the good news to go out and for God to get the glory.

In his letter to the church in Philippi, Paul declared God’s sovereign will concerning his imprisonment.

I want you to know, my dear brothers and sisters, that everything that has happened to me here has helped to spread the Good News. For everyone here, including the whole palace guard, knows that I am in chains because of Christ. And because of my imprisonment, most of the believers here have gained confidence and boldly speak God’s message without fear. – Philippians 1:12-14 NLT

Paul longed to be with Jesus, but he was also committed to the work to which he had been commissioned. So, for Paul, it boiled down to the will of God. The gospel must go out, and if God wanted Paul to be an ongoing participant in that mission, God would orchestrate Paul’s release. If God set Paul free, he asked that the Colossians pray for him to have clarity when proclaiming the message of the gospel.

Pray that I will proclaim this message as clearly as I should. – Colossians 4:4 NLT

He reminded them that they too must live out their faith, constantly mindful of its impact on “those who are not believers” (Colossians 4:5 NLT). As they prayed for God’s will to be done, they must also live their lives in accordance with God’s will for them. They were to be salt and light, living wisely and circumspectly, always recognizing their role as Christ’s ambassadors on earth. That is why Paul encourages them, “Let your conversation be gracious and attractive so that you will have the right response for everyone” (Colossians 4:6 NLT).

Their words were just as important as their works. Their daily interactions with the unsaved would be vital to the continued spread of the gospel, and their patient, loving treatment of one another would demonstrate the life-changing nature of the good news.

In a sense, Paul encouraged his flock in Colossae to practice the model prayer that Jesus gave His disciples.

“Your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.” – Matthew 6:10 ESV

Their petitions and their actions were to be in keeping with God’s will, and they were to pray and behave in ways that aligned with His revealed will for the world. Even facing possible death, Paul’s primary concern was that the gospel would continue to spread and the lost be restored to a right relationship with God. The Colossian believers were integral to that mission being accomplished, and he had the same expectation of them that he shared with the church in Philippi.

…you must live as citizens of heaven, conducting yourselves in a manner worthy of the Good News about Christ. Then, whether I come and see you again or only hear about you, I will know that you are standing together with one spirit and one purpose, fighting together for the faith, which is the Good News. – Philippians 1:27 NLT

Father, Paul is such an inspiration. His dedication and determination to carrying our Your will almost seems superhuman and impossible to replicate. But he was just a man. The same Holy Spirit that lived in him lives within me. I have experienced the same miracle of salvation and am undergoing the same process of sanctification that Paul went through. He was a sinner saved by grace and so am I. But I long to share his zeal for the gospel and his boldness to preach the good news of Jesus Christ regardless of the risks or the perceived results. He often found himself in trouble and faced substantial opposition to his efforts to carry out Your will, but his prayer requests were rarely self-focused. He was all about the spread of the gospel and was willing to suffer if it meant that more people could hear the message of salvation. For Paul, imprisonment wasn’t an obstacle; it was an opportunity. He truly believed that Your grace was sufficient and Your power showed up best in his weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9). I want to share his outlook on life, his faith in Your all-sufficient power, and his commitment to fulfilling Your will — regardless of the cost. Amen

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That God May Be Glorified.

The end of all things is at hand; therefore be self-controlled and sober-minded for the sake of your prayers. Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins. Show hospitality to one another without grumbling. As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God’s varied grace: whoever speaks, as one who speaks oracles of God; whoever serves, as one who serves by the strength that God supplies—in order that in everything God may be glorified through Jesus Christ. To him belong glory and dominion forever and ever. Amen. – 1 Peter 4:7-11 ESV

Peter lived with a powerful and behavior-influencing belief that the return of the Lord could happen at any time. He truly believed that “the end of all things is at hand” (1 Peter 4:7 ESV). He obviously remembered the words of Jesus spoken to he and the other disciples: “if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and will take you to myself, that where I am you may be also” (John 14:3 ESV). Peter had no idea when Jesus was going to return, but he lived his life as if it could happen any day, and he encouraged his readers to do the same. A fervent expectation of Christ’s return will have a powerful impact on our behavior as we wait. That is why Peter tells his audience  to be “self-controlled” and “sober-minded”. The first word is σωφρονέω (sōphroneō) and it means to “think of one’s self soberly, to curb one’s passions” (“G4993 – sōphroneō (KJV) :: Strong’s Greek Lexicon.” Blue Letter Bible. http://www.blueletterbible.org). Remember, Peter had just told his readers to “have unity of mind, sympathy, brotherly love, a tender heart and a humble mind” (1 Peter 3:8 ESV). They were to have the same attitude that Christ had. They were not to be controlled by their sin natures, repaying “evil for evil or reviling for reviling” (1 Peter 3:9 ESV). They were to live their lives “in the flesh no longer for human passions but for the will of God (1 Peter 4:2 ESV). To live differently, they were going to have to see themselves as different, set apart, distinct. They were going to have to remember that they belonged to God and had His Holy Spirit living within them.

The second word is νήφω (nēphō) and it means “to be calm and collected in spirit, temperate, circumspect” (“G3525 – nēphō (KJV) :: Strong’s Greek Lexicon.” Blue Letter Bible. Web. http://www.blueletterbible.org). It is the same word Peter used earlier in his letter when he wrote, “Therefore, preparing your minds for action, and being sober-minded, set your hope fully on the grace that will be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ” (1 Peter 1:13 ESV). It conveys a seriousness of outlook that should pervade our lives as Christians. We are not here for our own pleasure, but to fulfill the purposes of God. Like Jesus, we have been given a job to do and we are to live our lives focused on the will of God. Our hope is to be in the return of His Son and the ultimate redemption and the glorification of our bodies. To live self-controlled and sober-minded is to take sin seriously and to make our calling by God our highest priority. As Peter suggests, it has a dramatic impact on our prayers. Not so much that our prayers will not be answered if we fail to live self-controlled and sober-minded, but that we will not know what to pray for. We will tend to pray selfish, myopic prayers that are based more on our will than God’s. They will focus more on making our lives easier, rather than more holy. They will be surface-oriented, instead of heart-focused.

Our prayers should be a reflection of our love for God and others. We should want for others what God desires for them – either their salvation or their sanctification. Love should motivate all that we do. And as Peter suggests, “love covers a multitude of sins” (1 Peter 4:8 ESV). Love allows us to patiently put up with the sins of others, especially when those sins are against us. This doesn’t mean we tolerate or turn a blind eye toward sin, but that we allow love to dictate our reaction to it. We should never forget that “God showed his great love for us by sending Christ to die for us while we were still sinners” (Romans 5:8 NLT). He didn’t demand that we get our act together first. He loved us in the midst of our sinfulness and provided for us a means of being freed from our slavery to sin.

Peter tells us that all that we do in this life is to be done for the glory of God. Every word we speak is to be carefully considered, and treated as if you were speaking for God. When we serve others, we are to do so with a complete dependence upon His strength, not our own. Paul expressed it well when he wrote to the believers in Rome: “For from him and through him and to him are all things. To him be glory forever. Amen” (Romans 11:36 ESV). We are to live our lives in complete reliance upon Him and with the intent to glorify Him through all that we do. We exist for His glory, not our own. We are to live like Jesus, “who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God” (Romans 12:2 ESV). Our future glorification is coming. But in the meantime, we are to live in such a way, “that in everything God may be glorified through Jesus Christ” (1 Peter 4:11 ESV). And God is glorified through Jesus Christ as we live in faithful obedience like He did. When we emulate the life and love of Christ in this dark and dying world, we bring glory to our heavenly Father, just as He did.

Peter speaks of the eternal glory and dominion of God. That is something we need to dwell on more as we live in this temporary, time-constrained world. This is not all there is. God has something greater and grander in store for us. The end of all things is at hand. We don’t know when the Lord will return, but He will. So we need to live in eager anticipation and expectation of that day. We must long for His return more than we long for our best life now. We must focus on our future glorification rather than our immediate gratification.

…but we ourselves, who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait eagerly for adoption as sons, the redemption of our bodies. For in this hope we were saved. Now hope that is seen is not hope. For who hopes for what he sees? But if we hope for what we do not see, we wait for it with patience. – Romans 8:23-25 ESV

 

Exodus 31-32, Mark 13

Patient Obedience.

Exodus 31-32, Mark 13

But concerning that day or that hour, no one knows, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father. Be on guard, keep awake. For you do not know when the time will come. – Mark 13:32-33 ESV

It didn’t take long. Moses had been up on the mountain receiving the Law from God. Down below, the people had begun to lose patience, wondering what had become of their leader. Eventually, they took matters into their own hands, appointed for themselves a new leader and demanded that he make them a god like the ones they had worshiped back in Egypt. It is ironic to think that while Moses was on Mount Sinai receiving the stone tablets with the Ten Commandments, given by God and engraved by the very finger of God, the people were at the base of the mountain preparing to violate the first two commandments. If ever there was proof for the need of the law of God in the lives of men, this is it. God knew mankind well. The laws He was giving Moses were a direct reflection of the sinfulness of man. In spite of all that God had done for them and how He had revealed His power on behalf of them, they demanded that Aaron “make us gods who shall go before us” (Exodus 32:2 ESV). They had grown impatient and dissatisfied with the God of Moses. In their minds, He was a difficult to understand God. He was a demanding and oftentimes harsh God. He was a God who made pleasant-sounding promises about future rewards and blessings, but in the meantime, they found themselves wandering around in the wilderness eating manna and living in temporary shelters. They were unhappy with the way things were going under the rule of Moses’ God. And with Moses out of the way, they decided to make a god of their own choosing.

What does this passage reveal about God?

One of the things God had been telling Moses up on the mountain was His plans for the construction of the Tabernacle, His dwelling place among the people. Not only had God given Moses exacting, detailed plans for the construction of this “tent of meeting,” He had made it clear that He had prepared the workmen for the task, naming them by name, and assuring Moses that “I have filled him with the Spirit of God, giving him great wisdom, ability, and expertise in all kinds of crafts. He is a master craftsman, expert in working with gold, silver, and bronze. He is skilled in engraving and mounting gemstones and in carving wood. He is a master at every craft!” (Exodus 31:3-5 ESV). God provides for what He commands. He had already Spiritually-enabled those who would do the work of building the Tabernacle and all the elements associated with it. But it was all going to take time. It wouldn’t happen overnight. Things were going to have to be done God’s way and according to God’s exacting standards, but He would bring it about by His divine enablement.

The promises of God would eventually be fulfilled. They would one day find themselves in the land that God had promised to Abraham. But the people were going to have to learn that the journey was just as important as the destination. They were going to have to learn to worship God in the wilderness or they would never worship Him in the land. Patient obedience was one of the things we all must learn when following God. His ways are not our ways. His timing rarely gels with ours. At times He seems to disappear or be distant. He is difficult to see and even harder to comprehend. His commands and expectations can seem too harsh and too demanding. His promises can sometimes come across as empty and unfulfilled in our lives. And it is at those times, we must patiently obey and faithfully wait for Him.

What does this passage reveal about man?

We are a fickle lot. It doesn’t take much to cause our faith to turn into faithlessness. When things don’t quite go our way or turn out to our liking, we can quickly turn on God, just like the Israelites did. In their case, they constructed an actual idol. But we tend to be more sophisticated, placing our hopes, dreams and our constant need for security in things like money, our careers, our own intelligence, other people, science or the philosophies of this world. Either way, we end up making gods out of something we can see or touch. The English word, “idol” comes from the Greek word, eidolon which means “something to be seen.” We tend to put our faith and hope in the visible and the tangible. We struggle with the concept of an invisible, unseen God. We get uncomfortable with His “otherness” or transcendence. We grow impatient with His seeming lack of presence in our lives. We wrongly assume that because we can’t see Him, He is not there. And our impatience can easily turn to impertinence. We grow doubtful of His presence and, ultimately, disobedient to His rule over our lives. God accused the people of Israel of having “corrupted themselves. They have turned aside quickly out of the way that I commanded them” (Exodus 32:7-8 ESV).

How would I apply what I’ve read to my own life?

Patiently obeying God is difficult. There are so many times in my life when I am tempted to give up on God and move on with my life. I take matters into my own hands because I fail to trust the God has them firmly in His own. The promise of heaven is wonderful, but I find myself in this world, surrounded by the problems that come with living in the midst of a fallen creation and among sinful people. Life can be difficult. And I can’t always see what God is doing behind the scenes. So I can find myself growing impatient and impertinent. I can easily turn my doubt and disbelief into disobedience to God’s will. In the 13th chapter of Mark we have recorded for us the words of Jesus to His disciples. It is near the end of His life and He is preparing Himself for His coming death, and them for His eventual departure. They will find themselves alone and on their own. So He warned them about all that was going to happen in the days to come. Much of what He said referred to events that have yet to take place. Jesus was giving them an overview of the end times – all the way from the more immediate days after His death and resurrection to the much more distant events associated with His return. Things were not going to get easy for the disciples. He told them, “But be on your guard. For they will deliver you over to councils, and you will be beaten in synagogues, and you will stand before governors and kings for my sake, to bear witness before them” (Mark 13:9 ESV). He warned and encouraged them, “And you will be hated by all for my name’s sake. But the one who endures to the end will be saved” (Exodus 13:13 ESV). They were going to have to patiently obey. They were going to have to trust God’s timing. Jesus Himself was not privy to the exact timing of God’s plan. “But concerning that day or that hour, no one knows, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father” (Mark 13:32 ESV). So He told them, “Be on guard, keep awake. For you do not know when the time will come” (Mark 13:33 ESV). Much of what Jesus talked about would not happen in their lifetime. It has yet to take place in ours. But He would tell us the same thing. Stay awake! Be ready. Live patiently obedient. Trust God and don’t bail on Him just because you can’t fully understand or comprehend what He is doing in and around your life. Jesus assures us that the one who endures to the end will be saved. That is a picture of patient obedience, as we do our part and faithfully trust God to do His.

Father, I want to patiently obey. I want to increasingly trust You, regardless of whether I can see You or not. You have given me more than enough reasons to do so. You have always been faithful to me. You have proven Yourself faithful throughout the ages. You have given mankind plenty of evidence of Your power, Your presence, and Your patient endurance of our sin and faithlessness. Help me stay awake, be on guard, and patiently obey to the end. Amen

Ken Miller
Grow Pastor & Minister to Men
kenm@christchapelbc.org