¹ Therefore, my brothers, whom I love and long for, my joy and crown, stand firm thus in the Lord, my beloved.

² I entreat Euodia and I entreat Syntyche to agree in the Lord. ³ Yes, I ask you also, true companion, help these women, who have labored side by side with me in the gospel together with Clement and the rest of my fellow workers, whose names are in the book of life.

⁴ Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice. ⁵ Let your reasonableness be known to everyone. The Lord is at hand; ⁶ do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. ⁷ And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. – Philippians 4:1-7 ESV

As Paul begins to draw his letter to a close, he repeats a phrase he used at the very beginning. He calls on his brothers and sisters in Philippi to stand firm in their faith together.

 Only let your manner of life be worthy of the gospel of Christ, so that whether I come and see you or am absent, I may hear of you that you are standing firm in one spirit, with one mind striving side by side for the faith of the gospel… – Philippians 1:27 ESV

Paul bookended his letter with the same thought, using the Greek word stēkō to convey it. It is a word that carries the idea of remaining steadfastly committed, even in the face of adversity. Paul was encouraging his flock to persevere in their faith, no matter what happened around them. There would be opposition and obstacles, but they were to remain solidly dedicated to the cause of Christ, not just as individuals but as the body of Christ. Remember, Paul is addressing the whole community of believers because he knows that their ongoing unity and solidarity in the face of opposition will be the key to their growth and effectiveness.

This idea of standing firm was a staple of Paul’s letters, and its repeated use reveals his strong belief in its importance.

With all these things in mind, dear brothers and sisters, stand firm and keep a strong grip on the teaching we passed on to you both in person and by letter. – 2 Thessalonians 2:15 NLT

So we have been greatly encouraged in the midst of our troubles and suffering, dear brothers and sisters, because you have remained strong in your faith. It gives us new life to know that you are standing firm in the Lord. – 1 Thessalonians 3:7-8 NLT

Be on guard. Stand firm in the faith. Be courageous. Be strong. And do everything with love. – 1 Corinthians 16:13-14 NLT

Notice that Paul linked this perseverance to a variety of things. He described its foundation as being the clear, unadulterated teaching of the gospel, and that gospel message was to be based on the Lord Jesus Christ and Him alone. Belief in the gospel message requires faith in the finished work of Jesus Christ.

Here in chapter four, Paul reminds his readers to stand firm in the Lord. It was their faith in Jesus’ substitutionary death on the cross that would fuel their perseverance and persistence in the face of ongoing difficulty. Any deviation or distraction from the pure gospel message of faith in Christ alone would leave them unstable and capable of anything, including disunity, immorality, and a failure to shine as lights “in the midst of a crooked and twisted generation” (Philippians 2:15 ESV).

Having reiterated his call to perseverance, Paul turns his attention to a specific case within the local congregation where steadfast, persevering faith was desperately needed. Most likely, when Epaphroditus arrived in Rome to minister to Paul, he had informed the apostle of an ongoing problem between Euodia and Syntyche. Paul provides no clues about the nature of the issue between these two individuals, but they were clearly members of the local church family in Philippi and were experiencing an interpersonal conflict that was affecting the entire congregation. Perhaps others were taking sides, and the dispute between the two women was beginning to divide the church.

Regardless of the cause of their conflict, Paul calls them to “agree in the Lord.” On closer inspection, we can see that Paul is actually revisiting a phrase he used earlier in his letter, when he told the church to “Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 2:5 ESV). Paul used the Greek words touto phroneō. Here in chapter 4, when addressing these two women, Paul used the same basic words, autos phroneō. He wanted them to share Christ’s attitude or mindset and called them to view their conflict as Christ would: with humility, selflessness, and a willingness to put others’ needs ahead of their own.

Paul points out that these two women had been key participants in spreading the gospel in Philippi. They had labored side by side with him during his time in the city, so their personal disagreement was negatively affecting the flock. Paul was concerned enough to mention these two women by name and solicited others to help mediate a solution. He specifically mentions someone whom he describes as syzygos, which can be translated as “true companion” or “loyal yoke-fellow.” We are not told who this individual was, and some translators believe that this designation should be translated as the proper name, Syzygus. Whoever this individual was, Paul wanted them to help resolve the dispute between Euodia and Syntyche. The unity of the body was at stake, and the cause of Christ was too important to allow this disagreement to continue.

Paul’s declaration that the names of these two women were written in “the book of life” indicates that he was convinced of their salvation. This seems to refer to a divine register of the faithful kept in heaven by God. Jesus referred to it when speaking to the 70 disciples who returned from their first missionary journey, boasting that the demons had been subject to them. Jesus replied, “Behold, I have given you authority to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy, and nothing shall hurt you. Nevertheless, do not rejoice in this, that the spirits are subject to you, but rejoice that your names are written in heaven” (Luke 10:19-20 ESV). 

The Book of Revelation also mentions this heavenly record book of the faithful.

The one who conquers will be clothed thus in white garments, and I will never blot his name out of the book of life. I will confess his name before my Father and before his angels. – Revelation 3:5 ESV

…nothing unclean will ever enter it [New Jerusalem], nor anyone who does what is detestable or false, but only those who are written in the Lamb’s book of life. – Revelation 21:27 ESV

These were not two unbelievers bringing their conflict into the local body of Christ; they were two mature Christ-followers allowing their personal and, most likely, petty disagreement to disrupt the unity of the church. They were not exhibiting the mind of Christ or standing firm in the faith.

While the next verse seems to indicate that Paul was done addressing the conflict between Euodia and Syntyche, he appears to make a direct appeal to them. Rather than bickering and fighting with one another, Paul challenges them to “Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice” (Philippians 4:4 ESV). It is difficult to remain fixated on what you believe to be a personal slight when your eyes are focused on Jesus. It is almost impossible to see yourself as suffering injustice if you keep in mind all that Christ suffered on your behalf. Rejoicing in the Lord and arguing with your neighbor are impossible to do at the same time. Paul calls on these two women, and everyone else in the church, to practice “reasonableness.”

“The Greek word contains connotations of gentleness, yielding, kindness, patience, forbearance, leniency, and magnanimity.” – Dr. Thomas L. Constable, Notes on Philippians

Those characteristics are antithetical to a spirit of disagreement and disunity. Paul reminds these two women that their decision to seek unity will be a tangible demonstration of what it means to have the mind of Christ. Their choice to resolve their disagreement will bear witness to the resurrection power Paul spoke of earlier in this letter.

Again, while the words contained in these verses most certainly applied to the entire congregation, it seems likely that Paul was still addressing the situation between Euodia and Syntyche, and his message to them was clearly aimed at every believer in Philippi. He reminds them all that the Lord is at hand. In other words, His return is imminent, and they should live with their eyes fixed on that reality rather than on their petty disagreements and personal slights. They were to live as if the Lord could return at any moment, and Paul knew that if they did so, the cares of this world would lose their power over them. He also knew that their disagreement was most likely based on a fear of being taken advantage of. There was something personal driving the conflict between them. That is why Paul states, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God” (Philippians 4:6 ESV).

If they believed they were being taken advantage of, they should take the matter to God. Rather than disputing with one another, they should share their cares and concerns with God. Addressing the problem of lawsuits being filed between members of the church in Corinth, Paul asked, “Why not just accept the injustice and leave it at that? Why not let yourselves be cheated?” (1 Corinthians 6:7 NLT). Paul suggested that if someone suffered loss in the pursuit of peace and unity, they should take their need to God, not to the courts. Demanding your rights before men will never substitute for the joy of sharing your needs with God.  Winning an argument or a lawsuit will never bring peace or contentment.

Just a few verses later in this chapter, Paul shares his own personal experience with injustice and inequity.

I have learned how to be content with whatever I have. I know how to live on almost nothing or with everything. I have learned the secret of living in every situation, whether it is with a full stomach or empty, with plenty or little. – Philippians 4:11-12 NLT

Euodia and Syntyche could continue to pursue their disagreement, but the outcome would remain divisive and destructive. One might get the upper hand in the dispute, but no one would experience God’s blessing as a result. That is why Paul reminded the believers in Philippi that bringing their problems, cares, conflicts, and concerns to God always leads to a better outcome.

His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus. – Philippians 4:7 NLT

Father, conflict seems inevitable in this life. Sin and selfishness seem to feed our inherent desire to get things our own way. Even in the church, disagreements and disunity seem to be par for the course. Yet, Your Son prayed that we would be unified and loving in our response to one another. He knew that true community requires unity and a spirit of selfless, sacrificial love. He told His disciples, “Whoever wants to be first must take last place and be the servant of everyone else” (Mark 9:35 NLT).. But we regularly find ways to disagree with one another, and, sometimes, our fissures and fractures are caused by the pettiest of issues. We tend to be thin-skinned and wear our feelings on our sleeves. We equate contentment with getting our way. But Your Son said, “I have come down from heaven to do the will of God who sent me, not to do my own will” (John 6:38 NLT). When I let my will get top billing, nothing good happens. When I demand my way, everyone suffers, including me. Give me the strength and determination to seek peace instead of personal satisfaction. I want to learn to pursue Your agenda instead of my own. I know I can’t do it in my own strength, so thank You for providing the Spirit and the body of Christ to make it possible. Amen. 

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